Literal Translation: The buzz cooling down
Actual Meaning: The exact opposite of 上头: when one tiny, cringe, or arrogant thing your date does instantly destroys all attraction.
Western Meme Parallel: Getting the ICK / Instant turn-off
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Direct antonym of 上头, popularized by Xiaohongshu dating horror story threads.
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